As we age, the need for care and support becomes more pronounced, but for LGBTQ+ older adults, this journey can be marked by unique challenges.
What are the right steps we can take for a secured future?
In this episode, Tim Volk explores the intricacies of long-term care and aging, emphasizing the importance of planning for the future. He also gives surprising statistics about the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ older adults in long-term care facilities. Additionally, Tim highlights the power of insurance in providing financial security and peace of mind and the need for risk management.
Tim discusses:
The concerns and actions needed to address the rising costs of long-term care
The concept of Blue Zones, areas where people live longer, and the common factors among them, such as a sense of community and taking care of each other
The difficulties faced by LGBTQ+ older adults
The different types of long-term care insurance coverage
The idea of creating a communal living situation or support network within the LGBTQ community
The cost-benefit analysis of insurance and how it protects individuals and those around them
In part two of this two-part series, Tim Volk and Jill Shipley reveal some messed up ways that people relate to money.
In this episode, Tim tackles redefining success and coming out of the shadow for rising generations and families of wealth with Jill Shipley, Managing Director and Head of Governance and Education at AlTi Tiedemann Global. Jill discusses the challenges faced by wealthy families and the impact of money on individuals, relationships, and the community. She emphasizes the importance of nurturing human and intellectual capital within families, redefining success beyond financial wealth, and finding purpose and fulfillment in life. Jill also talks about the complexities of growing up in a wealthy family, the importance of open communication, and the value of genuine connections.
Tim and Jill discuss:
The impact money has on individuals, relationships, and the community
How to redefine success beyond financial wealth
Some of the challenges and complexities of growing up in a wealthy family
Preparing the next generation to cope with inherited success
The need to find personal motivation for success beyond just money
Why purpose, fulfillment and giving back in life are so important for affluent families
As Managing Director and Head of AlTi’s Family Governance and Education Practice, Jill Shipley helps families, family offices, foundations and family enterprises manage the impact of multigenerational wealth. She brings over 20 years’ experience and expertise in family systems, preparing rising generations, communicating about wealth, navigating family enterprise transitions, family and business governance and strategic philanthropy. She lives in Denver, Colorado with her husband and son.
How would you describe your relationship with money?
In this episode, Tim Volk offers a tantalizing glimpse of what lies ahead in the forthcoming episodes. Get ready to embark on a riveting journey as he unveils a compelling two-part series alongside Jill Shipley. Together, they will delve into the intricacies of our relationships with money and how diverse life experiences shape our perspectives on wealth. Stay tuned for thought-provoking insights and valuable discussions!
Tim discusses:
The expertise and profound insights that make Jill Shipley a remarkable guide in transforming how families approach their wealth
A sneak peek into the topics that Part 1 and Part 2 of the forthcoming series will explore
An array of thought-provoking questions that he and Jill Shipley will skillfully address
The profound impact money has on our perceptions of affluent families, offering intriguing revelations
And much more in this riveting episode that promises to reshape your understanding of wealth and its dynamics
As Managing Director and Head of AlTi’s Family Governance and Education Practice, Jill Shipley helps families, family offices, foundations and family enterprises manage the impact of multigenerational wealth. She brings over 20 years’ experience and expertise in family systems, preparing rising generations, communicating about wealth, navigating family enterprise transitions, family and business governance and strategic philanthropy. She lives in Denver, Colorado with her husband and son.
Envision the emotional journey of parents, resolute in their unwavering dedication to embrace and affirm their child’s sexual orientation or gender identity, while simultaneously grappling with the burden of their child’s battle against addiction.
This multi-layered heartache casts a shadow of pain and complexity, making it an excruciating ordeal endured by far too many parents in the LGBTQ+ community.
In this episode, Tim Volk speaks with author Wesley Davidson about her book When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need to Know. Wesley shares the story of her son, Graham, a member of the LGBTQ+ community, his battle with addiction, and its influence on her decision to write a book to help other parents. Wesley’s story is a testament to the strength and resilience of parents who strive to embrace and understand their children’s sexual orientation or gender identity.
Wesley discusses:
Her journey to becoming an author and the evolution of her relationship with her children
The lessons she learned from sending her son to rehab and her advice to other parents
Why she wrote When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need to Know and what she learned in the process
Her message to other parents of children in the LGBTQ+ community
A sneak peek of the new project she’s working on to help parents who are looking to intervene with their child’s substance abuse
Wesley Davidson is a member of the American Society of Journalists and Authors and The Authors Guild. During the last few years, Wesley has concentrated her writing on the LGBTQ community. Wesley co-authored When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need To Know with psychiatrist Jonathan L. Tobkes, M.D. Wesley’s popular blog Straight Parent, LGBT+ Kid gives tips for straight parents of LGBTQ children on how to deal with issues raising nonbinary children. Her book, When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need To Know was awarded the Pinnacle Book Achievement Award for best parenting book in 2017 by the National Association of Book Entrepreneurs. For parents of children with substance abuse disorders, Wesley also writes a monthly column for Psychology Today.com with addiction specialist Joseph Shrand, M.D. Wesley has contributed to websites such as gaynewspulse.com and gaynewsagenda.com as well as parenting magazines such as Adoptive Families, Family Fun, and American Baby, to name a few publications.
The journey to parenthood is filled with twists and turns, and it’s rarely an easy one. But for those who must take the path less traveled to create a baby, the journey can be even more challenging. Despite the obstacles, these individuals are determined to overcome adversity and build the family of their dreams.
In this episode, Tim Volk welcomes back Arden O’Connor to the podcast to share her inspiring story of building her own family. Unable to have children of her own, Arden has explored every option out there, overcoming obstacles at each step of the way.
Tim and Arden discuss more on:
The exciting array of options available to individuals who are unable to conceive children naturally
The incredible advances in science that have opened up a world of possibilities for creating a family
Arden’s personal experience and unique perspective on navigating the surrogacy process
Gain valuable insights into why adoption may not be the right fit for everyone
And more!
Join us as we delve into the inspiring stories and uplifting journeys of those who have overcome obstacles to create the family of their dreams.
At the age of 25, Arden was diagnosed with Leukemia, leaving her unable to have children of her own. Knowing she wanted to become a mother, Arden set out on her journey of creating her family.
Arden founded the O’Connor Professional Group to address the needs of families and individuals struggling with various behavioral health issues, including addiction, mental health disorders, eating disorders, learning, and other developmental challenges. With several relatives in recovery, Arden is passionate about helping families and individuals navigate the highly fragmented treatment system in a way that creates positive outcomes and allows families to heal.
Arden is a graduate of Harvard College and Harvard Business School. She remains heavily involved in community activities, as a board member of Winsor School Corporation, Collaboration for Family Flourishing, and Massachusetts Association of Mental Health. Previously, she served as a board member for the Justice Resource Institute (former chair), C4 Recovery Solutions, Attorneys for Family Held Enterprises, Harvard Club of Boston, Victory Programs, and Harvard Business School Alumni Association of Boston.
How does aging affect the LGBTQ+ community and what can we do to help them age with dignity?
In this episode, Tim Volk speaks with Arden O’Connor and Sam Van Kalkeren, MSN, RN, CDP, CADDCT about the challenges of aging with dignity for individuals in the LGBTQ+ community. Arden and Sam discuss the challenges faced by aging LGBTQ+ individuals, highlight the lack of education among care providers and the public about these issues, and emphasize the need for senior living communities to invest in staff education around culturally competent care for the LGBTQ+ community and to be more inclusive and safer for their LGBTQ+ residents.
Arden and Sam’s key takeaways:
The public and care providers need more education about the issues facing aging members of the LGBTQ+ community.
Senior living communities need to invest in staff education around culturally competent care for the LGBTQ+ community.
Senior living communities need to be more inclusive and safer for their LGBTQ+ residents.
Senior communities should have zero-tolerance policies for harassment and discrimination against anyone.
States need more legislation protecting LGBTQ+ individuals from being denied culturally competent care, especially from organizations or communities that accept government funding.
Like their heterosexual counterparts, LGBTQ+ individuals need support in planning for their future and understanding the costs.
Why it’s so important for LGBTQ+ members to have all their legal affairs in order and up to date to ensure their wishes are respected.
Arden O’Connor founded the O’Connor Professional Group to address the needs of families and individuals struggling with various behavioral health issues, including addiction, mental health disorders, eating disorders, learning, and other developmental challenges. With several relatives in recovery, Arden is passionate about helping families and individuals navigate the highly fragmented treatment system in a way that creates positive outcomes and allows families to heal. Arden is a graduate of Harvard College and Harvard Business School. She remains heavily involved in community activities, as a board member of Winsor School Corporation, Collaboration for Family Flourishing, and Massachusetts Association of Mental Health. Previously, she served as a board member for the Justice Resource Institute (former chair), C4 Recovery Solutions, Attorneys for Family Held Enterprises, Harvard Club of Boston, Victory Programs, and Harvard Business School Alumni Association of Boston.
Sam Van Kalkeren, MSN, RN, CDP, CADDCT is OPG’s Director of Aging Services. He has been working as a psychiatric RN since 2012 and is a Certified Alzheimer’s Disease and Dementia Care Trainer and a Certified Dementia Practitioner through the National Council of Certified Dementia Practitioners. Sam has worked with all age populations, from pediatrics to geriatrics, suffering from mental illness. He has experience working with clients suffering from substance use and co-occurring disorders, complex mental health diagnoses, neurocognitive disorders, and personality disorders. Most of his nursing career has been in the inpatient psychiatric setting. Sam joined OPG from Tufts Medical Center in Boston, Massachusetts, where he was the Clinical Nurse Director for the inpatient psychiatric department. Prior to Tufts, he was the Patient Care Director for the geriatric and adult inpatient psychiatric units at Carney Hospital, in Dorchester, Massachusetts. Sam received his Master of Science in Nursing degree, specializing in Leadership and Management, from Aspen University. He also has a Bachelor of Arts degree in International Affairs, from Florida State University. Sam has a passion for teamwork and helping others. He is dedicated to delivering high-quality care and superior service. Sam enjoys traveling the globe with his husband, cooking, CrossFit, and playing with his two dogs Max and Beertje.
Did you know that out of the staggering 140 million individuals aged 12 and above who consume alcohol, a startling 20% grapple with the harsh realities of alcohol abuse or addiction?
In this episode, Tim Volk engages in a profound conversation with Arden O’Connor, the founder, and CEO of O’Connor Professional Group. Together, they delve into the intricate world of addiction, exploring Arden’s remarkable efforts in guiding individuals through their most challenging crises. Arden sheds light on the limitations of conventional 30-day rehabilitation programs, raises awareness about the heightened vulnerability to addiction within the LGBTQ+ community, and underscores the alarming risks associated with laced drugs. Furthermore, she touches upon the progress made in mental health awareness across America.
Arden discusses:
What addiction is and why she’s passionate about her work in helping people through addiction-related crises
Why the standard 30-day rehabilitation program treats the issue instead of solving it
Why the LGBTQ+ community is increasingly susceptible to addiction
Why laced drugs are one of the worst risks out there for those who suffer from addiction
The improvements in increased awareness for mental health in America
Her top 3 takeaway points for those who are struggling or know someone who is struggling with addiction
….And much more
Prepare to be captivated as Arden shares her key takeaways, offering invaluable insights for those grappling with addiction or seeking to support someone on their journey to recovery. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of addiction and the transformative power of compassionate support.
Arden O’Connor founded the O’Connor Professional Group to address the needs of families and individuals struggling with various behavioral health issues, including addiction, mental health disorders, eating disorders, learning, and other developmental challenges. With several relatives in recovery, Arden is passionate about helping families and individuals navigate the highly fragmented treatment system in a way that creates positive outcomes and allows families to heal. Arden is a graduate of Harvard College and Harvard Business School. She remains heavily involved in community activities, as a board member of Winsor School Corporation, Collaboration for Family Flourishing, and Massachusetts Association of Mental Health. Previously, she served as a board member for the Justice Resource Institute (former chair), C4 Recovery Solutions, Attorneys for Family Held Enterprises, Harvard Club of Boston, Victory Programs, and Harvard Business School Alumni Association of Boston.
Get ready to learn about the 5 capitals that can help your family thrive for generations to come! Join Tim Volk on this episode as he shares his expertise on human, intellectual, social, spiritual, and financial capital. You’ll discover how to create a strong foundation and sense of purpose that transcends generations by managing and optimizing each capital.
But that’s not all – this episode is all about inclusivity too! Tim dives into topics like creating a mission statement for inclusion in the family’s purpose, eliminating entitlement, and the challenges of leadership in a family council.
Whether you’re a family with enormous wealth or just starting out, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to build a successful and happy family legacy. Tune in now!
Tim dives deep into the following topics:
The meaning of the 5 capitals and how he applies them
The importance of creating a mission statement for inclusion in the family’s purpose
The challenge of eliminating entitlement in families with enormous wealth
The purpose and benefits of having a family committee or council
The complexities of leadership in a family council
Join us for a fascinating discussion on how to optimize each of these capitals for a long-lasting family legacy.
Are you eager to build a lasting legacy for your family, but concerned about the unique challenges that come with multi-generational wealth? Look no further than our inaugural episode with Tim Volk, a financial expert and proud member of the LGBTQ community, who is dedicated to resolving family financial issues.
Join Tim as he shares his personal journey and the reasons behind his decision to enter the industry. He’ll reveal the secrets to creating multi-generational wealth and navigating the challenges that come with it. With Tim’s expertise, you’ll discover how to build a legacy that lasts for generations to come.
In this episode;
Discover how Tim’s unique experience with a multi-generational family business propelled him to build a successful career in the financial industry
Learn about Tim’s approach to helping the wealthy overcome the common pitfalls of discussing finances, and how he helps them navigate the star-struck mentality
Hear about Tim’s philanthropic endeavors and how he gives back to the community
Listen to Tim’s coming out story and the role it plays in the work he does
Explore Tim’s interests outside of work and how it informs his approach to helping families
And much more in-depth insights and wisdom from Tim’s experience in the financial industry
Don’t miss this opportunity to gain valuable insights and pay it forward for your own family’s financial future.
Finding peace of mind through shared wealth experiences – Hear stories of financial triumph and transformation.
Welcome to The Rainbow Bull with Tim Volk from T. Volk & Company Consulting. In this podcast, Tim, a proud member of the LGBTQ community, discusses a range of topics around the five capitals of a flourishing family: human, intellectual, social, spiritual, and financial capital.
Get ready to meet the ultimate business powerhouse, Tim Volk! Hailing from an entrepreneurial family, Tim is a one-of-a-kind professional with an exceptional network, fantastic interpersonal skills, and a deep appreciation of the issues surrounding wealth.
Tim is the Founder and Principal of T.Volk & Company, a boutique advisory firm that specializes in assisting families and their advisors.
So, join us as we uncover the secrets of the wealthy and how we might learn from them!
